COLUMN 001 - ALL I DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT SOULMATES...

I used to think the notion of having a soulmate was stupid.

Stupid… and intensely frustrating.

My mind used to race...

How the hell would I find them? Would we be magnetically drawn together on some rainy day when I was out for coffee? Were they next to me in the supermarket queue, had I brushed past them on the dance floor ? What about all the days when I was dishevelled, distracted, shy, or just plain hungover?

What if they never came around again… my chance of true love was gone forever, because I hadn’t bothered to wash my hair? 

Or worse, because I hadn’t been wise enough to recognise real Love when it stood right in front of me in the first place...

I secretly scoured each room, party, cocktail bar, gym, packed out tube, scanning faces and energies in case I found HIM. The One who would make everything feel like Magic. 

Then, somewhere in my early-thirties, everything shifted. I realised I really didn’t want to be the main character in one of those novels you buy at the airport to devour at the beach and then leave behind, another tale of a 30 something girl almost giving up on love until….

I realised I wanted to be far more empowered, wise and conscious when it came to Love & Relationships.

For in this not-so-subtle search, the fantasy projection that coloured my vision meant I was missing seeing people for who they truly were...

It was around the same time that I dove deep into understanding the inner workings of Love & Subconscious patterning, and discovered everything I didn’t know about the 7 Different Types of Soulmates….Read the complete article here.

Which leads me to ask you a question…?

Have you ever wondered why you attract certain people and patterns in Love & Relationships?

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Here are 7 of the key factors that contribute to which one of the 7 Soulmates you attract (and choose)

• Self-love, Self-Worth (cliched, but true)

• The Parent Pattern (so much of your subconscious is coded in the first 7 years of your life, once you unlock the patterns, so much freedom awaits because you no longer get stuck in ancestral patterns)
• Exes (yup, hands up who has past experiences that you haven’t fully integrated and released?)
• Prioritising Work over Love
• Love of Freedom/ vs Fear of Commitment (very Gen X, but what are you sacrificing along the way?)
• Not being able to fully trust & receive - includes not trusting the Universe and Divine Timing (one of the biggest blocks in relationships, and surprisingly simple to fix)
• Not knowing (or being clear) on what you really want.

This final one is where manifestation comes in - send out mixed messages, and mixed results you shall receive!

Hit reply if your love life needs some TLC  and you know it’s not what you dream.  

Hit reply if  your love life is a mess, your healing from a break-up or you just feel blocked in meeting someone that matters, it’s a clear nudge from the Universe that it’s time to decode and upgrade your programming. 

 This is the final week to join a 12 step masterclass in how to rewire your patterns and what you attract when it comes to Love. Find out more here.

Love always,

L